Certain psychological aspects of growing up or of people who are developing at what ever age, are very delicate matters. We want the best for our kids but how do we decide on what the best is ? When do we make choices or when do we let our child take responsability for their choice? How do you manage to separate your own personal issues from your child's ?
How can we know when to let go of our protective behavior and still stand by them with advice? What is reasonable and what is not? There are no real guidelines because every child is different. Contact with a professional in psychological development who has coaching skills can help you and your children to overcome the difficulties that growing up sometimes means.